"What right do I have to mourn someone I wasn't even invested enough in to go see ever? It’s not totally fair to me or to him but it’s how I feel, nevertheless."
I lost my best oldest friend to fentanyl nearly 2 years ago, and exp. similar feeling of compulsive guilt. Didn't talk to him enough. Could've been more supportive. Engaged him more. Idk But life has a habit of passing us by. But what you wrote was a touching tribute to your friend. Sounds like a good polish boy who will be missed. I really love the Feds' song "the distance" too. Didn't know he was in that band. My Sincere condolences. And fuck cancer too wtf xo
I think most of us have had the feeling of mourning someone we haven’t seen in ages. I totally understand what you are saying. It’s happened to me before and I say to myself that I’m going to do better in regards to keeping up with certain people but I don’t.
Thank you for this. I also lived with Mark many years ago and was lucky to have him as a friend. I also fell out of touch with him and only tonight just learned of his passing. It is a little hard to breathe knowing I will never laugh with him again.
The following paragraph really hits home, Bren:
"What right do I have to mourn someone I wasn't even invested enough in to go see ever? It’s not totally fair to me or to him but it’s how I feel, nevertheless."
I lost my best oldest friend to fentanyl nearly 2 years ago, and exp. similar feeling of compulsive guilt. Didn't talk to him enough. Could've been more supportive. Engaged him more. Idk But life has a habit of passing us by. But what you wrote was a touching tribute to your friend. Sounds like a good polish boy who will be missed. I really love the Feds' song "the distance" too. Didn't know he was in that band. My Sincere condolences. And fuck cancer too wtf xo
I think most of us have had the feeling of mourning someone we haven’t seen in ages. I totally understand what you are saying. It’s happened to me before and I say to myself that I’m going to do better in regards to keeping up with certain people but I don’t.
Thank you for this. I also lived with Mark many years ago and was lucky to have him as a friend. I also fell out of touch with him and only tonight just learned of his passing. It is a little hard to breathe knowing I will never laugh with him again.
This was lovely and honest.
Sorry to hear about your loss.
That Bollweevils cover is one of my favorites of all time.
Sorry, Brendan. That really fucking sucks.
Condolences.